Tuesday 30 August 2016

Corporate and life lessons from MSD Trailer

M S Dhoni is a living legend, there is no iota of doubt in it. His impact is such that for first time in history a movie is being made on sportsmen who is still enjoying his/her playing days.
1) “Acha goalkeeping karta hai tu, cricket khelega”: Surely, tells in this country only attractive sport (read money wise) is cricket. With boost from IPL style leagues other sports are also getting momentum though. Many time in corporate industry we are too deeply focused in one area and forget potential of other areas especially upcoming ones. We need to have bigger horizon to capitalize on array of opportunities
2) “Khel khud apne jaga but padhoge likhoge toh kisi layak banaoge”: Concern of every goddamn Indian parent. We seriously need to come out of it and start supporting your child dreams. Again, we think that there is only one approach to become successful. But, today's era demand out of box thinking and unconventional approach to become successful
3) “Sir aaj open kare, weak team ke saath run banna ke kya fyada”: Tells character of youngster who want to become best by beating the best. Unless, you crack hard deals, you won't establish your credibility. To become best, you have to compete and rather beat the best.
4) “Pass jitna ho jayega and running to catch train”: Balancing studies and his love (cricket). This tells us about work life balance. Also, one need to focus on current skills/work but also need to brush up and develop his potential on upcoming and his area of interest.
5) “Dhoni koi Tendulkar nahi, Dhoni Dhoni hai:” Giving deserving person one opportunity.
And one which nails it
6) "Baba woh kharagpur mein job ke security mein padh gaye na, toh hum aage kuch na kar payenge:" Follow your passion and take your chances. Unless, you take your chance you won't win. Go and get it.

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Saturday 4 June 2016

Ek Dewaana Tha

I held your hand, when everyone was against you. I wiped your tears, when everyone was cause of your tears. But when you got everything, you left me aside. You were my everything but how I became your nothing??

This was the last message send by my friend Rohit to his girlfriend Nikita. I had never imagine that such a cute couple will have such a tragic end.

  These dates back to long time ago when we were in college. Rohit was one of my best buddies. From submitting last moment assignments to playing pranks or doing ragging to fighting for a social cause, we always rubbed shoulder together. I still remember how we had made our college proud by winning so many inter college tournaments. We were called rockstar duo of the college, ahead in sports as well as in studies.

     Cut to second year, I was actively involved in interacting with juniors. But, Rohit was against ragging so he had joined anti ragging committee’s was also against ragging but always believed that there should be healthy interaction between juniors and seniors. After all being the torchbearer(hahaaaaaaaa) of this college that’s my responsibility. I remembered a girl was sitting in the corner of a classroom trying to hide from the so called ragging. But who could have been saved from my barbarian eyes. I asked her to stand up and give her introduction. She was apprehensive and in order to make her relaxed I touched her shoulders and she got more tensed. In between Rohit came and stopped me and that put him into her good books (I didn't know in which book I was lying!!!) He took me out of class and told me she was friend of his cousin, so he wants to protect her. I said protect from me, do I look like a debaucher? He said, yes you do. At that moment I realise my friend has feeling for her.

     They became good friends and Nikita also realised I was not dangerous at all. She told me you are just a frustrated guy which is a syndrome of studying in all boys’ school. I asked her do you have a sister or cousin like you? My jokes and pranks continued while they were getting serious with each other. Rohit was now devoting more time to her rather than sports and studies.

       One day three of us were watching a reality show  Zodies in DTV. I was saying them all these reality shows are rigged and explain them how they do it only for publicity. Nikita opposed by saying all are not rigged and at least not his favourite show Zodies. I had an altercation with her and challenged her to take part in reality shows. I didn't know my challenge will change our lives.
              
                                                   In  a month time there was a modelling contest in a reality show, Nikita wanted to take part in it. I told her don't do it for challenge but she told me it was not for my challenge but her dream. Girls, more you argue with them more you lose your hair, I had given up. But twist in the story came when her family opposed this idea. Her conservative family was strictly against modelling and her dad looked like Amrish puri when I first saw him. I was thinking is my friend life too filmy and seriously I don't want to give my life for their happy ending. I persuaded both Rohit and Nikita to be realistic and stop this dream. But they didn't hear any of my suggestions.

   Nikita needed 50,000 rupees for portfolio on the basis of which contestants would have been shortlisted. She told she could manage only 10,000 rupees. Rohit had 10,000 in his bank account. They turned towards me I too had only 10,000 rupees which I had collected over the years just to take my hotshot dates out. Rohit decided to sell his bike and he somehow arranged the remaining money. Nikita and Rohit both got emotional over this and exchanged a kiss and I got a token of friendship(pats on my back).Here I also reminded Nikita that after winning the modelling competition it’s her responsibility to lookout for a model girl for me. We had a great laugh.

Portfolio done and now was the turn to convince Amrish Puri aka Nikita's dad. We tried a hell lot but nothing constructive happened. It was tough time for Nikita. Her parental pressure was too much as they also sensed her relationship with Rohit. In this crisis time Rohit took care of Nikita. He was her source of inspiration and shoulders on which she wiped her tears. Yeah man girls cries a lot. Finally, Nikita decided to leave his home to pursue her dream.

             Cut to the competition, Nikita performed extremely well and won the competition. It was dream come true for us. Rohit went to the airport to receive her. He was very elated. But soon he realised she was behaving differently.

    After few days, she stopped receiving our calls and refused to meet us. She indicated Rohit that this was the time to move on. She told him that they can’t have future together. Actually success had hit her head. Unable to bear all of this Rohit went into depression, I tried hard to make him come out of depression but it was fruitless. I was also shocked badly. For me they were the best and cutest couple in town. I knew people change but so fast and so easily, I could not believe.
Here, I am taking my friend Rohit to hospital after he jumped from roof of his building and pouring thoughts on how people change and don't value others emotions. His last message still hovering around my mind: I held your hand, when everyone was against you. I wiped your tears, when everyone was cause of your tears. But, when you got everything, you left me aside. You were my everything but how I became your nothing, nothing nothing............