Its Grey

Grey colour sometimes signifies colourless, faceless and uninterested. It is very interesting though how we judge things in only black and white. Where is the colour grey my friend?

               Andy is smart and hardworking. He is working in an MNC for last 5 years. In his tenure, he has seen three bosses. He didn't develop good rapport with any of them. One of his boss, pushed him hard and always used to assign challenging tasks. Andy ponders why my boss is allocating his share of work without realizing the fact that his boss wants him to develop new skills. His boss sees Andy as a future leader. It is here Andy should have developed another perspective and notice the grey side.

             

              Abhijeet and Abhik are good friends. Abhijeet always asks Abhik to come and party with him over the weekend. Abhik hardly obliges as he is not financially well off. Rohan considers him to be a miser. Alas, had Rohan seen a different outlook (grey) he would have understood situation better.

            The guy whom you labelled rude is actually undergoing through a broken marriage. The woman whom you tagged workaholic is the sole bread earner of her family. The boss you considered arrogant is having his own set of problems and undergoing mid managerial level crisis. Judging is pretty easy but understanding other's situation is difficult. I, too have judged things in black and white. I regretted it later.

           So, my dear friends lets develop a new perspective and stop dissecting things only in chalk and cheese. Let’s try to witness grey areas. After all life is not binary and lets be a visionary by observing the grey.